Who Is Penn Badgley Dating?

The Short Answer

Who is Penn Badgley dating? — the verified answer, based on reputable media reporting and public records, is covered in detail below. Penn Badgley is a public figure whose relationships have been documented by entertainment media over the course of a career in the public eye.

What follows is a fact-checked timeline: who Penn Badgley has been linked with, what is confirmed versus rumored, and where things stand now. Every claim is sourced — speculation is labeled as speculation.

Who Is Penn Badgley?

Penn Dayton Badgley (born November 1, 1986) is an American actor and producer. He is known for his roles as Dan Humphrey in The CW teen drama series Gossip Girl (2007–2012) and as Joe Goldberg in the Netflix psychological thriller series You (2018–2025).

Badgley came to prominence playing Phillip Chancellor IV on the soap opera The Young and the Restless (2000–2001). He then featured in the comedy films John Tucker Must Die (2006), Drive-Thru (2007), and Easy A (2010), the thriller films The Stepfather (2009) and Margin Call (2011), the biographical film Greetings from Tim Buckley (2012), and the drama film The Paper Store (2016).

Early life and education

Penn Dayton Badgley was born on November 1, 1986, in Baltimore, Maryland, the son of Duff and Lynne (Murphy) Badgley. His father had worked as a newspaper reporter and then as a carpenter and home builder and was the Green Party candidate for governor of Washington State in 2008. Badgley has stated that his first name comes from the brand of tennis ball his father was holding during his mother's first sonogram.

An only child, Badgley attended Woolridge Elementary (where his mother served as a PTA president), before transferring to St. Christopher's School in Richmond, Virginia. He attended Charles Wright Academy in Tacoma, Washington. Badgley is said to have been home schooled alongside Blake Lively, his future co-star and partner. His parents divorced when he was 12. He recalls having "wanted to make music ... as a 12-year-old", and recorded an unreleased pop single in 1998, referring to the effort as "terrible" and "misguided" in an interview.

As a child, Badgley was involved with the Seattle Children's Theatre and the Pine Nut Players community theater in Monroe, Washington. His mother supported his acting efforts and worked various jobs—later starting a jewelry design business with Badgley's godmother, Jan Sneed. He has said he "skipped high school altogether" and at age 14, he took a proficiency exam and began attending Santa Monica College. He was later accepted to the University of Southern California, but deferred admission due to contractual obligations, later enrolling for two years at Lewis & Clark College in Portland, Oregon.

2000s

Badgley and his mother moved to California so he could pursue an acting career. He recalls, in an interview, departing for Los Angeles at age 11. He soon began doing voice-overs for children's radio stations in Hollywood. His first credit was voice work for the video games Mario Golf 64 and Mario Tennis 64 in 1999 and 2000, respectively. Badgley had his first screen acting credit on an episode of Will & Grace, and he subsequently appeared on shows such as Daddio, The Brothers García, and What I Like About You. Badgley's first notable role was as Phillip Chancellor IV on the soap opera The Young and the Restless, which he portrayed from 2000 to 2001. He was nominated for the Young Artist Award for Best Performance in a Daytime Series in 2001 for his performance.

Relationship History

In October 2019, Badgley was cast in the independent film Here Today opposite Billy Crystal and Tiffany Haddish, which was released in May 2021 to mixed reviews from critics. Also in 2021, he was part of an ensemble cast in Jimmy Giannopoulos' directorial debut and crime thriller, The Birthday Cake.

In June 2024, Badgley starred with Brandy and Monica in the music video for Ariana Grande's "The Boy Is Mine".

In July 2025, it was announced that Badgley and Meghann Fahy had been cast in Amazon MGM Studios' You Deserve Each Other, a romantic comedy film based on Sarah Hogle's novel of the same name.

Current Relationship Status

As covered by reputable entertainment media, Penn Badgley's current relationship status is a matter of public record where confirmed. For the latest verified updates, see the sources section.

Career Context

In 2002, Badgley starred in The WB's comedy-drama fantasy series Do Over as Joel Larsen, a 34-year-old man who gets a second chance at life due to a strange accident that catapults him back to 1980 as a 14-year-old. He went on to star in two other WB series: The Mountain from 2004 to 2005, and The Bedford Diaries in 2006. Badgley's first major film credit was 2006's John Tucker Must Die, playing the role of Scott Tucker. In its opening weekend, the film grossed a total of $14.3 million, ranking third in the U.S. box office results for that weekend. He later appeared in Drive-Thru, co-starring future castmate Leighton Meester.

In 2007, Badgley was cast as Dan Humphrey in The CW's teen drama series Gossip Girl, based on the book series of the same name by Cecily von Ziegesar. He initially turned down the role, but accepted after the producers struggled to find someone else to fill the role. His performance as Dan was praised by audiences and critics alike, and earned him six Teen Choice Award nominations over the show's run. Jason Gay of the Rolling Stone particularly complimented his characterization, writing that "while another actor may have played Dan as a blah straight man, Badgley imbued him with an occasionally obnoxious know-it-all-ness." In 2009, Badgley starred in the thriller film The Stepfather, a remake of the 1987 film, as the stepson of a serial killer.

2010s

Badgley then played Todd, the love interest of Emma Stone's character, in the 2010 teen comedy film Easy A, which was a critical and commercial success, earning him a Teen Choice Award nomination. Next, he appeared in the financial thriller drama Margin Call in 2011, for which the ensemble cast was critically acclaimed. He won the Robert Altman Award as part of the cast, presented at the Independent Spirit Awards. In 2011, Badgley was named one of People's "25 Beauties (and Hotties) at 25", and BuddyTV ranked him number 75 on its "TV's 100 Sexiest Men of 2011" list.

Badgley portrayed musician Jeff Buckley in the 2012 biopic Greetings from Tim Buckley. The film follows Buckley's journey of grappling with the legacy of his late musician father, Tim, leading up to and culminating with his 1991 performance of his father's songs. For the role, Badgley took guitar and vocal lessons. In December 2012, he joined the cast of Parts per Billion, opposite Alexis Bledel and Teresa Palmer, which released in 2014. Also released in 2014 was crime triller Cymbeline, where he portrayed the orphan Posthumus.

Badgley had a recurring role in NBC's 2015 miniseries The Slap, based upon the Australian series of the same name, and had a minor role in the 2016 film Adam Green's Aladdin. Badgley won acclaim for his role in the independent film The Paper Store (2016), opposite Stef Dawson and Richard Kind, receiving Best Actor at Oxford International Film Festival and a Special Jury Mention at Manchester Film Festival.

Badgley starred as Joe Goldberg in the Netflix series You, formerly Lifetime's television adaptation of the book of the same name from September 2018 to April 2025. His performance was lauded by critics, with IGN calling it his best performance and writing that Badgley was "doing some of his best, most unhinged work in the series. His charming nature and playful face are the perfect, twisted mask for the 'Nice Guy With Control Issues' lurking underneath". Badgley received a Saturn Award nomination for his performance.

2020s

Privacy and Public Image

Like many public figures, Penn Badgley has balanced a public career with private life. Reporting here sticks to what has been confirmed on the record by the individual or by reputable outlets — not paparazzi speculation.

That boundary matters because Penn Badgley's fan base is large and highly engaged, which means unverified claims can spread quickly. The approach here is conservative by design: confirmed facts from named sources, clear labeling where information is limited, and no reliance on anonymous gossip. When reputable outlets have not confirmed a detail, this article says so rather than filling the gap with speculation.

Why Penn Badgley's Love Life Draws Attention

Public interest in Penn Badgley's relationships follows a familiar pattern for high-profile figures: a combination of on-screen charisma, selective public appearances, and the natural curiosity fans feel about people they admire. Entertainment media covers these stories because readers consistently search for them — which is exactly why verified, responsibly-reported answers matter more than rumor aggregation.

For Penn Badgley specifically, the career trajectory — from early roles to wider recognition — has kept personal life in the spotlight. Each new project tends to renew interest in the off-screen story, and each public appearance gets parsed for clues. The sections above separate what is actually confirmed from what is merely discussed online.

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